Yesterday, my father called me a genius.
This was after I fixed the cable on his t.v.
Believe me, I am no genius TV repair gal, but I decided I should roll up my sleeves and try to get the thing going. I am no techie. In fact, I generally shun things like this. My eyes glaze over when I read instruction manuals. And even yesterday, I didn't really pay any mind to the instructions, I pressed buttons. Lots of buttons. I checked wires and cables. I turned the darn thing on and off and on and off, and guess what--I got it working. Actually, I did figure out some mystery inner workings of the TV, but it's so deep and complex, I can't describe it here. Suffice it to say, that it was Zen.
When I told my friend Marcie the story, she said an amazing thing to me. "These days, it's like we're living out the Swiss Family Robinson." She meant that we've all become a little more self-reliant and more likely to roll up our sleeves and figure things out.
I think it's true.
Being a care giver has inspired me to learn loads of new skills. Yes, I have always been able to cook and clean and shop and order things and chauffeur people around (I actually learned this from my early years as a mother), but now I've learned how to talk with doctors and APRN's and I know all about hemogloben levels, thyroid levels, drug interactions, and what's the difference between a Wheelchair and a Transporter, how to construct a bath bench and why it's important to tighten the brakes on the Rollater.
I've definitely honed new problem solving skills. But more than this, I have learned patience. And so when I needed to fix the TV and the cable and get them communicating with one another, I learned something about Zen. In Robert M. Pirsig's iconic book, he said:
"The Buddha, the Godhead, resides quite as comfortably in the circuits of a digital computer or the gears of a cycle transmission as he does at the top of a mountain or in the petals of a flower."
I believe this is true.
Creative friends, my assignment for you this week is to fix something. Rather than trying to get this task over with as quickly as possible, I would like you too stay in the here and now as you take this ordinary "broken" thing--whether it's a computer program, or a tear in a dress, or a mixed-up cable connection--and approach your problem with the soul of patience, and the oneness of the universe.
It's not about the end-game, but rather what you learn from the becoming.
Have a good week, dear friends.
Love,
Jamie
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